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Dear Suz,I haven't seen any questions on your site that pertain to this so I am going to bite the bullet and submit a question. I am a work at home dad. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship and I get to spend all day every day with my 3 small children. I am a freelance writer and make quite a good living from my living room. My problem is that when my wife and I go out to dinner with her

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Dear Suz, I am writing to you because I have read your blog and I think maybe you will have some insight that I am missing. I am a single mother of a wonderful little boy who is 4, his "birth father" hasn't been in the picture ever since he found out I was pregnant. I am now engaged to be married to a great guy who wants to raise my son as his own, he wants to adopt him. I am all for that idea

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Dear Suz,My boyfriend watches internet porn all the time. I am not jealous of those pneumatic boobs or plastic bodies but I wonder what he is missing in our sex life that makes him want to watch that stuff. How can I get him to stop?-Not KinkyDear Not Kinky,I can't tell you what your boyfriend is missing in your sex life because I am not part of your sex life. But remember that men are visual

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Dear Suz, my question isn't so much as question as a problem. I am a nice person, but people don't think I am because I say whatever is on my mind. I don't see the benefit in making things sound nice to protect someones feelings, I think that is denying my own feelings and passion about a topic. How do I make people understand that I am not mean or nasty, I just speak bluntly and don't pretty it

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Dear Suz,I need help with a problem that I am having. I have a friend who has been a really good friend to me for a long time. She has helped me out many times, and I don't want to lose her. Now I am in a situation where my boyfriend wants us to move away. I owe this friend a good deal of money and if I move with him I will be losing the job she helped me get, as well as the apartment she

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Dear Suz, I am in my mid-20's and I have no clue what I want to do with my life. All of my friends went to college and are now searching for jobs in their field. I have had jobs in different fields, and they all paid the bills, but I feel like I should be searching for the thing I really want to do. Any ideas?- Lost Generation WhateverDeal Lost,If you are getting bills paid, you are probably

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Hello Suzanne, I am a stepfather doing the best I can. I have three adorable step kids ages are 4 the boy 5 and 11 being girls. We have a beautiful relationship only my wife and I bump heads so often about parenting being she was a stepchild growing up as well. She has a wonderful relationship with her SF. I was raised by both my biological parents so things were very different in our lives. I

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Dear Suz, I'm a writer. I have set up an interview with a published author on the basis that I read his book first before doing a review and the interview. I've finally finished reading the book.If I were to go through with the review now, it wouldn't get high marks. While the book was funny in parts, it was hard to focus my attention on. Half way through it, I began to skip pages and dreaded

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Dear SuzHelp! my soon to be father in law has made a move on me. He actually told me that he knew how to handle a woman much better than his son, and if I wanted a real man I'd try him out before the wedding. Should I tell his son, or his wife, or just keep this to myself and avoid him. At the time there were other people nearby and I walked away like I didn't hear him. He was drinking at the

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Dear Suz,I need to know how to deal with my boyfriend. He doesn't like any of my friends, some of these girls have been my friends since grade school. My boyfriend gets furious whenever one of them calls, and throws a fit if I spend time with them. These are nice girls, they are like part of my family, but he won't compromise at all and has told me that I will stop being friends with them or I

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Dear Suz,While working out of town for 3 months I met a wonderful guy. We developed a relationship and talked about him relocating to where I live, about 400 miles away. He doesn't have a major career like I do, he works mostly from his home on the internet, so moving wouldn't be a problem for him. We discussed all of this and the plan was for him to come here about 30 days after I returned home.

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Dear Suz-I need help with a situation that I am in with my best friend and her boyfriend. It's definitely not a love triangle because he doesn't love her, and he doesn't love me, he's a player. But I got drunk one night and ended up going home from the bar with him. We had a great night and have continued to see each other off an on. I knew him and even slept with him a lot before he met her. The

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Dear Suz -I'm really embarrassed to admit this problem, but I think about sex all the freaking time! I'm a girl - and I know that's normal for guys - but does that make me some kind of freak? I mean, every guy I meet - I start thinking about him naked and then I start thinking about getting down with him and I feel so ashamed but at the same time I love it. I love thinking about sex. I mean, I'm

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Dear Suz -I keep having these recurring dreams about various women I know. They all involve playing games and sex. Like the other night I was dreaming that I was playing strip Connect Four (you know, with checkers?) with this woman I know. Another night I was playing naked Twister (that one was pretty fun). Then another time it was Clue and - me with the lead pipe in the ballroom. Another time I

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Dear Suz -I am in love with someone but she's like my best friend. I'm what you'd call a nice guy - and I know it seems like the ladies prefer a man who will treat them like shit and stuff, but I just can't do that. This woman is everything I've ever wanted but she only goes for assholes who treat her like dirt - I know because she comes crying to me every time one of those pricks breaks her

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Dear Suz -I've found that I'm completely obsessed with someone online. I talk to this guy frequently and we've really hit it off. Seems like we have a lot in common. I Google his name all the time just so I can read anything about him (he spends time on a lot of public forums). I have him on my IM and every time I see him online I try to chat with him. He's told me a lot of stuff about himself,

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T.S. asks: Dear Suz, everyone keeps talking about writing for money. I like to write but have no idea how to get started. How can I become a writer too?T.S. I have so many answers to that question. I too, started out wondering how on earth people made money from writing without writing actual books. Yes, I was naive.First things first: Educate yourself. Join Associated Content and read all the

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Dear Suz,I have a question for your site. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, we are happy most of the time, and he is planning on us spending our lives together, but I am not really "feeling it" anymore. Should I stick it out or break up with him now?Signed: Wants to be free-maybeDear Wants to be free-maybe,Many people go through periods of not really "feeling it" when they are in a

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Hi and Welcome to Ask Suz! This is a blog where you will find real questions asked by actual people. The answers will be as helpful as possible and will be provided by Suz and several others.If you would like to submit a question please email it to: askawayquestions@yahoo.comAll questions will be posted on the blog anonymously, so go ahead and ask your deepest darkest questions.From relationships

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